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Sunday, October 7, 2007|5:11 PM

During a relationship, there will be times when both of you had a really bad argument.
It could be that she had done something really bad that hurt you bitterly
or it could be something that he had done that brought out all the sorrows in you.

Then how far would you go to forgive a person?

It’s strange that many people claimed that they would do almost anything for the ones they loved.

But when it comes to forgiving someone,
these people would be the first to omit from their list of ‘everything that I’m willing to do’.

I ever heard a story about a guy and his fiancee.

They knew each other for many years since secondary school.
As a couple, they went through many ups and downs.
Every time they would compensate each other’s mistake and forgive each other no matter what.

Time passed and soon both before finally decided to settle down and start a family.
So wedding plans were made and they even bought a house and finished renovation.

As both their parents were rather traditional,
both of them were not supposed to see each other on the night before their customary marriage.

The guy didn’t have any pre-wedding last bachelor’s night program so he decided to go to their new house.

When he reached, the first thing he realized were the
two pairs of shoes left on the doorstep.
One was distinctively his fiancee’s;
the other was a pair of male sports shoe.

As he opened the door,
he heard laughter coming out from the master bedroom.
As much as the guy tried to be self-deceiving,
he opened the doorknob to prove himself wrong.

The sight was disbelieving!

The guy stood at the front of his master bedroom
& saw his wife to be and another man merrily enjoying on their bed.
The stranger saw him and got dress almost instantly
while the woman just froze at the sight.

The guy then closed the door and sat in the living room
while both got changed and the man left the premises promptly.

His fiancee sat beside him and ask for his forgiveness.

That guy didn’t beat her,
slap her or even scolded her.
He only asked her whether she loves him.
His fiancee could only nod while in tears.

“Then be my good wife from tomorrow on…”
(ohmygod, i'm so gonna melt if i had such a great husband! :D )

He kissed her forehead and left the house.

Both of them got married as per plan the day after.
Anyone who came to their wedding labeled them as the most matches made couple that they have ever come across.

The groom was handsome and successful in his career and the bride was pretty and very gentle.
It was sounded as if a match made in heaven.

The guy didn’t talked anything regarding the incident ever since.

Then…

They got separated half a year after their blissful marriage.

Not because of the girl who strayed again but the guilt that left inside her on the day before their marriage kept haunting her since.

After 3 years of separation, they finally served their divorce letters.
Before the girl signed on the letter, she asked him.

“Why didn’t you scold me…?
Why didn’t you beat me?
I did something wrongful to you…
You know how much guilt you’ve left in me?”

The guy only looked at her and smiles.

“Because I love you… therefore I will forgive you.”
Tell this story to a guy and most probably he will label the groom as the stupidest person on earth.

Tell this story to a girl and most probably she will protest that guys are often the easier sex to stray than girls.

I don’t know that was a script from the drama series or a true-life account but it was told to me by a good friend who apparently knew the bride.

I ever asked myself what I would do if I were that guy.

Will I forgive?

I guess i certainly will… but I’ll never forget… and I would never want to see both of them again.

When you can’t forgive someone you love, it doesn’t mean you don’t love the person deep enough. It’s only the threshold that different people can take when the situation comes.

So how much can you forgive?

Even if you can forgive but can you forget?

ASHRAF; i have no idea. perhaps she's too shock? lol
PEISI; thankyou!!! :DDDDDD
ZELIANG; haha, yah lor peisi~ xp

xoxo